Wednesday, March 23, 2016

5 Things I do Everyday that I like to do for me.

     Here are 5 things that make each of my days just that much better!  These are some of the little things that make me feel put together and ready for the day.  Some of them are for me alone and some involve others.  Hope you enjoy!

Me and my FAVE coffee cozy =)
    5 Things That I do Everyday

  1.   Get'n me some Jesus time!  My mornings always start with connecting with my Savior.  It's not very fancy looking.  I read my bible, talk to God a bit and maybe journal something (this is rare for me in the morning though).  My house is quiet and the day is new.  It's the perfect time for me to read my bible!
  2. Lavender Tea.  I bet none of you thought I would say that ;) hahaha!  I do really love my tea.  I drink it after bible reading, though, when I am doing all my "morning chores".  Those would all involve me being on the inter-tube.  I check e-mail, write my blogs, do work on the programs I run.  It's all very busy, very lame, and very important and my tea makes it that much calmer and happier.
  3. I wish my swim suit had more pink
    and orange in it BUT I still love it!
    Ugly Dolphin is the best!
  4. I workout.  Now, this has been an on again/off again thing in my life.  It really needs to just stay on.  I feel so much better when I am consistent!  I feel like so much of my day is sitting so getting up and moving is a must!  I do a 25 min workout video 5-6 days a week.  Like, come on, it's only 25 min!  I also try to get in a 60 min walk/run/swim.  If it's the walking/running.  I normally do that when my kids are eating lunch.  If it's the swim then it's later in the afternoon when I have to run to town.  I try and at least get in a walk everyday.  
  5. Kid's go to bed.  When my kids were little I started the "7 p.m. or die" bedtime rule.  As they have gotten older, it was 7 to bed and read until 7:30, and now if you are over 13 then you get to hangout and do quiet stuff in the main part of the house from 7-8.  Yes, that means my 16 year old is going to bed at 8.  That leaves about 90 minutes for hubby and I to spend some time together.  I feel like this rule is reasonable. Plus, I am done with the little people, still, by 7 AND hubby and I need time too.  It's a win win.  We do have some nights, of course, where we do family movie or games or whatever.  But this is the general rule of thumb!
    Yup.... sums it all up.
  6. Family meeting in the morning.  This has been a HUGE help for me and the kids.  I HATE answering the same questions 10 times in a row.  It's annoying and time consuming.  So, after breakfast and morning chores are done, all the kids gather into the living room.  Once everyone is assembled (kids read until everyone is there) our meeting begins.  We go over the schedule for the day, what needs to get accomplished, new news/information, mom rants (you know they need to happen sometime), take prayer request, pray and then start our day.  Our meetings are usually about 20 minutes long.
     Okay!  So those are my 5 things that I do, what are some of yours?

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Reminders for me when life is busy

     So, I have been really busy lately.  Aside from the blog... and 10 homeschooling children, I also co-run a homeschool enrichment group and a youth Cotillion group.  I also have 12 acres of land that I can not ignore. Besides, it's like field trip season around here too! Come March of every year, things just collide!

My youngest girlie and I at a recent field trip
     The end of the year push, both programs are up and running after winter break (one starts in Feb and the other in March), and the garden needs to be planted, yardwork done and the blog written.  There are some days when I feel bad because my energy is being so spread out that I do not feel like everything is getting my all.  It's not really a bad thing, more of a priority thing and some things are down on the list (those are the ones I feel bad about).  So here are a few things I have found myself doing or saying in order to not stress out about it and just move through the season with a good attitude and right spirit.

  1. Pray More.  Or in general, find more time to keep bringing it back to Jesus.  I find that when I am the most overwhelmed are the moments I need to remember that the focus is "For God's Glory, our good, and not my gain".  So I pray more, seek Him more, and focus in on Him.
  2. I am not super women.  WHAT?  It really is okay that I can't do it all.  In fact, if I could that would be scary and anti Jesus.  So, I accept that I am , in fact, only human.
  3. The people I run all these programs for.  And oh, how I love them!
    The kids and the programs ;)
  4. Drinking more that one cup of lavender milk tea may be necessary for the day.  Ahhhh, lavender milk tea, how I love you!
  5. Keep some time easy, don't "go,go,go" every minute.  For me this is my weekends.  When hubby is home I do very little that is connected with my normal week.  I see that stuff as "work" and I need to leave work at work.  Weekends are holy.  I found myself this last weekend thinking of all the very import things I could be doing.  The Lord gently reminded me though that scrabble games, coloring with kids, napping in the afternoon with my hubby and family movie night were all VERY IMPORTANT things too. 
  6.  I let some stuff go.  That could be in any of my areas of "things I do".  And usually the letting go is a combination.  To find more time in my day for one thing I may have to shave off some stuff from another thing.  In the end the biggest issue is letting MY FEELINGS GO (let it go, let it go- I'll stop now) on how I may look at that juggling and shaving as a bad thing.  It's a good thing.  No harm, No foul.  It's all good.
Me and my tea as I write THIS POST!
     That's it.  Nothing major.  So in short it is:
  1. It's all about Jesus.
  2. I am not super women.
  3. Drink tea.
  4. Rest.
  5. Let it go.
     Perhaps you are in a similar place in your life?  Perhaps life has got you moving in multiple directions and stretching you a little thin?  Perhaps you are just overwhelmed with normal?  Truth is, we ALL go through those seasons.  What do you need to do in order to make it through and then gear back up?  Maybe you too need some more Jesus and Lavender milk tea ;) Hahahaha!  Seriously though, what does your list look like and how are you moving through this season?  Remember friend, it's all for God's Glory, our good, and not our gain.  

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Here to Help Learning: a writing curriculum review

Here to Help Learning Review
     Are you looking for a fun way to teach writing to your kids? Stressed out from so many boring and bland writing programs? Well I had the opportunity to review “Flight 1 Paragraph Writing” from Here to Help Learning as a member of the Schoolhouse Review Crew and I can assure you that this is fun and neither boring or bland!

Here to Help Learning Review
     As a hater of paper, I reviewed the online
program (vs the physical copies one: Teacher’s Kit Flight 1 Paragraph Writing.) I like things being online, it makes it easy.  After the first 10 minutes though, I did wish I had the pre-printed student work book! It was no biggie though, I just had to spend some time with my printer ;)

  OKAY!  So let’s chat about this program!   
     Here to Help Learning’s writing program is broken down into the following: Flight 1, 2, 3 Paragraph Writing [for grades 1-3] and Flights, 1, 2, 3 Essay Writing [appropriate for grades 4-6]. They are a Christian program that aims to help build up the faith in young-ones while teaching a fun writing program.  (If you want to make sure their views line up with yours, you can ready about what they believe HERE.)

     The program is written by Forrest and Beth Mora, who have been homeschooling their 8 children (only one at home now) for the past 20 years.   You can tell that they love Jesus, their family, and helping young writers!
     The program works with you, the teacher, logging in (there are no separate student/teacher accounts, just one account for you) which takes you to the members page, and you click on “Writing” in the top menu. Then you choose “Level 1, 2 or 3”, whichever level you are using. We are using/reviewing Level 1 here.
     After coming to the menu you will see the chart of lessons.  There are 32 for flight 1 but my computer only shows so many at a time ;)  I was a bit overwhelmed the first time I saw the chart of lessons.  I am an audio learner first and a visuals learner second.  Visually, I was overwhelmed by all the info jumping out.  I felt like I needed to figure out how to organize it all quickly, visually, without clear direction.  Once I clicked around for a while though it was pretty easy.  
Chart of Lessons (only some shown in pic)

Each lesson runs like this:
·         Pre-Flight Checklist
·          Flight Check-In
·         Take Off
·         Full Throttle
·         Flying Solo

      I was a little overwhelmed with everything that needed to be printed.  There is a student handbook and worksheet pages and it’s a lot of paper/ink.  Again I wish I had been able to buy an already printed student workbook, but whatever.   I ended up printing out each lesson’s worksheet papers as we went along and then they were added to the childs 3 ring binder.  It worked and was less… paper-y… than printing everything off at once. 
     After you choose which lesson you are on.  You start to move through the videos:

  • pre-flight
  • flight check-in
  • take-off
  • full throttle
  • flying solo assignments
     All-in-all, it was pretty easy to just “click play” and watch.  The program does a good job of telling you what comes next and what is needed/expected. 
     At first I had all my kids from 3rd-7th grade sit down and try it out.  I wanted the different perspectives and to see who “kind of needed it”.  Halfway through the first lesson, I sent my 3rd grader away.  He was just not ready.  The other 5 kids did the lesson and we talked.  My 11-14 year olds were not impressed.  They are all good writers and 3 of them are 7th and 8th graders so that is ABOVE the program target grades.  My 11 year old 5th grader writes on an 8th grade level so this was below her as well.  They were out.  That left A10.  HeE LOVES IT!!!  I was kind of shocked.  A10 is in the 5th grade but more like a 4th grader with reading and 3rd grade-ish with writing.  We’ve been working on it.  (He’s the kid I am doing the dyslexia games with ;)

     Anyway, He absolutely loves it.  He really took to the layout of the program and was quickly grasping the concepts they were looking for, plus he was having fun!
  Here is what he is learning about in the writing process:
  1. Brainstorm
  2. Make a List
  3. Webbing
  4. First Rough Draft
  5. First Input
  6. Second Rough Draft
  7. Second Input
  8. Final Recopy
  9. Publish

     During this review period, we complete six lessons. A10 never seemed overwhelmed by any of the writing process and would ask often to “do more”.  I was pretty impressed, not just with the program, but with A10!  He wrote his first ever paragraph on his own using this program!  To say I was excited to see this was an understatement! 

     The program suggest that you do the video exercise on one day and the writing on another.  We found it easier to just do everything at one time.  Depending on how much time your student wants to write, it takes about 45 min altogether.  This was do able.
Overall impression:
     Okay, here we go.  We liked it- a lot!  The program as a writing course is excellent!  The print outs are very well designed.  The video directions are easy to follow and…entertaining. Once you know what you are doing, it’s easy to navigate and move along.
Things we didn’t care for:
     So…. We all thought the videos were cheesy.  I know, I know…. But it’s true.  They were VERY WELL MADE and very well thought out.  It was just…. cheesy.  A10 didn’t mind, it made him laugh and that was good.  The other kids were just not digging it.  In all fairness, the videos are aimed towards 1st-6th grades and most of my older kids were above that.  I would say the grade target of the feeling of the videos is much more 1st-3rd/4th.  Everyone did like the flight captain- their basset hound, “Captain Knucklehead”. You will find him at the “Flying Solo” parts of the lessons.
     I wish that there was a way for the program to keep track of what you had already done.  Several times we needed to look in our folder and see exactly where we were in order to proceed.
     Another thing we didn’t like was that the exercises done in the videos did not match the ones the students at home did.  I think this was to not have the kids at home “copy” the brainstorming or writings of the kids I the video.  It made it kind of confusing though.  The first lesson, I thought maybe I did something wrong until I realized we were on track.  This is a minor thing but something I wanted to note so that you are aware.
     Lastly, 3 of my kids were public schooled until feb/2015.  All three of them kind of bristled when I first started the program.  I didn’t think much of it and thought it was just the cheesy videos.  When we got to the brainstorming part they started really looking uncomfortable.  I finally asked what was going on.  Their reply…
“It’s like public school”
     I just kind of sat there for a minute.  It was interesting for me to see the difference in how the “always homeschooled” kids viewed and approached the program and how the “former public schoolers” did.  All of a sudden, those three kids stopped feeling free to learn and instead felt the need to perform well.   It was sad.  I only note this because I thought it was an interesting perspective.  Plus, if you are trying to stay away from “that type of approach” then you would want to know that. 
Who I would recommend this program too:
    Everyone!  But, possibly not former public schoolers ;)  It really is a great writing program and it was fun for A10. 
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